Monday, April 22, 2013

Sexy Talk ~ Aphrodisiacs from A to Z

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Sexy talk is an art. After all, what one finds sexy another can find gross. Clearly, it's important to tailor your talk to your partner's wants and needs. Some folks enjoy cutesy-sexy talk, others funny-sexy, while yet others want it down-and-dirty-sexy. And, of course, there are folks who don't want to hear anything but their and their partners' labored breaths. Diff'rent strokes. (Heh heh.) All I know is, if a fella tries the funny-sexy with me, we're done for the night. I can't get my freak on when I'm giggling. (Take note, fellas.)

Y U SO SEX-AY?
Sex being a sensual experience, appealing to the sense of hearing is just one more way to rile a body up. Too, hearing what your partner wants to do to you while it's happening can shoot a charge to the brain (and subsequently, the naughty bits) like no other. And sometimes, demanding what you want aloud can be just the thing that makes the parties involved see fireworks. W00F.

Mind you pay attention to your lover's reactions to what you say: whimpers, moans, ragged gasps can all be very positive reinforcements. Loud gasps of shock and outrage, however...well, that's the way the nookie crumbles.

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29 comments:

  1. Whoa! It's been awhile, but Sexy talk begins with the eyes. You study the eyes, and you'll know what the sexy talk will lead to. :-)

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    1. I dunno, Rocky; talking eyes sound a bit creepy, to me. ;-)

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  2. Cackling laughs can break a mood, too :D

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  3. sexy eyes... and sexy talk... some inspiration for tonight's bedroom action !!! Happy to connect. I am now following you via A to Z Challenge . Do feel free to drop by my blog Wilderness at www.disha-doshi.blogspot.com

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  4. I'm not keen on "sexy talk". I like actions more than words. wink wink.
    If he starts trying to talk sexy, I cover him mouth. It's a turn off.

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  5. I think this is my favorite post and I love all the links! Spot on, Mina! Thanks for a great one.

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  6. I SUCK at dirty talk but that's OK b/c my mouth is usually busy anyway (wink nudge) but my guy is the King of dirty talk that gets my motor running in more ways than one. He used to say this stuff over the phone to me when I was still living in WA...it scared me a little at first b/c I wasn't sure if he was really going to do the things he said he was gonna when we finally got together. lol

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    1. LOL Some of them....but not all....still, he 'threatens' me and when we are in the supermarket he'll eye the cucumbers and give me a saucy look & smirk and then I have to steer him away. rotflmao

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  7. sexy talk - it's the mind thing again. Seduction of the mind. Always does it for me.

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    1. The mind's a great place to start, for sure. :-)

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  8. I love sexy talk (with the right person of course)! I think it gives a tantalizing avant-goût to what's coming next. (;

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  9. My ex-"fiancé" wanted me to improve my dirty talk, but he was so miserable at his own. He actually wanted me to tell him what to say, and often had to be prompted to say something. Very annoying.

    The worst example of sexy talk I've heard of was from a letter to Betty Dodson in Bust magazine. The letter-writer was complaining that her husband said really weird, inappropriate things, like always recapping how they met while they were having sex. Ms. Dodson said she would've strangled a lover the first time he started recapping their first meeting in bed!

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  10. "Does that come with fries"? Now that's sexy talk.
    KaTy Did at: Life's Ride As I See It

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    1. Mmmmm, fries...the precious...Dang, now I'm dying for a bacon-cheeseburger and fries. Nice goin'. ;-)

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  11. Greetings human,

    My alleged human thinks he's real funny with his sexual innuendos. I giggle at him because he insists at staring at himself in one of several full-length mirrors. Happy alphabeting, human.

    Penny the Jack Russell dog and modest internet superstar! :)

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  12. Sexy talk has to be just right for me. I've had guys try to get me in the mood by talking sexy and most of the time I just crack up. They sound so ridiculous most of the time, it's just awful. Like don't come at me when I'm about to watch Walking Dead and tell me you want to lick my body. I'll just ignore you or laugh at you. If he's persstant, I'll knock him out. I need my Daryl time. Just saying. ;)

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  13. Oy!!
    If someone was pressuring me to improve my talk...yeah--I would think it would have to be somewhat spontaneous--although the thought of it going bad is kinda funny. Yeah--that would blow the mood too--no pun intended.
    XO
    Pen

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